Awww, they’re so cute, those new puppies (or kittens) at the shelter… and it’s almost Christmas. Wouldn’t one be the perfect surprise for that friend who lives alone?
Maybe in a Hallmark movie, one might think.
Most of us grew up with the conventional wisdom that giving pets as Christmas gifts was not a good idea; one reason offered was the excitement of the holidays and lack of routine causing pet behavior issues that end with the animal being returned or re-homed.
But that tide has apparently turned. Current research data indicates pets given as gifts seem to “stick” better and are less likely to be returned than animals who were adopted by would-be owners themselves.
“We don’t really know why this is,” Good Shepherd Shelter Director, Cole Wakefield commented. “Perhaps it’s the relationship between the giver and the recipient that brings more attachment to the pet. We just don’t know the reason, but we do know what the data shows.
“Christmas is actually a great time to add a new member to the family because people are taking time off at home and can pay more attention to the animal’s training and integration into the family lifestyle.”
But there is one caveat echoed across the board by the ASPCA and major animal rescue organizations, veterinarians and even the medical community; gift, yes – surprise, no.
Holidays can lead to impulsive gifts of a pet that comes as a surprise, but the successful pet-human relationship requires a well-considered match for breed, size, temperament and activity level.
It helps to remember that behind the gift of a pet lies a responsibility requiring significant time, money, and up to a 20-year care commitment on the recipient’s part. Whether the pet is wearing fur, feathers, scales, leather, horsehair or a shell, it’s a welcome gift only if the recipient has shown a clear and sustained interest in having a pet and the ability to provide proper care for it.
The key is thoughtful preparation, not a surprise. The exception might be the surprise of a kitten or puppy for the kids from parents who have considered all the possible ramifications. In fact, a visit to the animal shelter can be a special Christmas family outing in and of itself.
As a gift for relatives or friends who’ve expressed a sincere desire to own, add, or replace a pet, consider paying an adoption fee in advance, and arrange a time limit with the shelter.
A wrapped gift of a leash, litter box or other pet-appropriate gear under the Christmas tree with a card or voucher saying adoption fees have been paid is a great option to give someone serious about having a pet, and when they are ready, the person gets to choose the one that grabs their heart.
While one may prefer an older animal, another may treasure the bonding time with a new puppy or kitten. And if the person ultimately decides against having a pet, you’ll still have made a much-needed donation to a shelter in their name.
Above all, avoid impulse. Whether you want to give a pet to the kids or to a friend or loved one, don’t do it on impulse. Even small pets, such as a hamster or gerbil, live for several years. Their ongoing care is a commitment, and fortunately, it’s in your power to make sure any pet you give as a gift has a happy ending.
All it takes is a little consequential visualization.